One of the more remarkable things about the Democratic Presidential nomination contest is the presence of an out gay man, married to another man, as one of the leading candidates. When Pete Buttigieg announced his intention to seek the nomination it caused barely a ripple. He was a largely unknown small city mayor with little if any national presence and given virtually no chance of sustaining a lengthy campaign for the nomination, let alone winning it. His opponents were polite, if perhaps a little condescending towards the thirty seven year old mayor of South Bend, Indiana, feeling, I suspect, it was good to have an openly gay candidate in the race as it enhanced the Democratic Party’s credentials as inclusive and representative of all Americans.
But something happened in the intervening twelve months, something no one would have predicted. Mayor Pete, as both his supporters and opponents now call him, not only persisted but grew in strength, attracting mind boggingly large donations and consistently registering in the next tier of candidates behind the front runners: Vice President Joe Biden, Senator Elizabeth Warren and Senator Bernie Sanders. People who always assumed he would be one of the first candidates to exit the race watched in surprise as the young man from Indiana held his own against a field of much more familiar and experienced faces. In fact, he not only held his ground, he actually gained with his calm, sensible, centrist positions while swatting away questions about his sexual orientation and youth with all the skill of an experience pol.
And now, just two months before the first caucuses and primaries, he is one of the leading candidates in Iowa and New Hampshire, the first two states to select delegates for the Democratic convention. Suddenly the innocuous, feel good candidate from South Bend is a threat to the perceived front runners and, after months of approaching him with kid gloves, at least one of them and her supporters are taking aim at Mayor Pete.
In the November Democratic Debate Mayor Pete did what he was supposed to do. As a centrist candidate he asked Senator Warren some difficult questions about her endless policy papers, specifically the proposal on “Medicare for All” and the elimination of tuition for all students at public universities in the United States. His questions and criticism effectively halted Senator Warren’s ascent in the polls and brought the wrath of her supporters and those of her fellow traveller, Senator Sanders down upon him.
Suddenly, the token gay candidate is labelled “Wall Street Pete”, or similarly negative sobriquets if you’re a left wing Democrat. Hashtag “Never Mayor Pete” has sprung up as have other hostile social media expressions. Protestors are showing up at his speeches and fundraisers and Senator Warren herself attacked him for not disclosing his clients when he worked for a controversial consulting firm, or failing to disclose publicly his funders. Mayor Pete responded by releasing the names of all his former clients as well as his funders and by opening his fundraisers to public scutiny. So far at least, none of this new information has contained even a whiff of scandal or controversy unless, of course, you count the completely false claim he was somehow involved in a price fixing scheme for bread by Loblaws in Canada. Now some of his young critics are saying they will never vote for him even if he does become the Democratic nominee.
I guess much of this is fair game when Mayor Pete becomes a leading candidate and a threat to others who feel they are entitled to the nomination. But some of it isn’t.
Where to begin? Let’s start with the young protestors and internet warriors who are now attacking Mayor Pete in ways that ultimately will only benefit Donald Trump. Raising unfounded concerns about a candidate’s past ethical behaviour, or about the possibility he’s compromised by his financial backers, is a page right out of the Republican playbook and you can be sure those questions, even though shown to be unfounded, will be repeated over and over again in the Donald Trump re-election echo chamber. Ironically, that is one of the charges made against Mayor Pete by his more “progressive” opponents and their supporters when they complain that by questioning the efficacy or cost and political acceptability of Senator Warren’s policy proposals, he’s giving ammunition for future attack ads against candidate Warren if she wins the nomination. But of couse there is no comparison at all. Senator Warren put all these proposals into play in the public arena and they need careful scrutiny. If that scutiny isn’t provided by an opposing candidate, who will provide it?
Also, to all those young supporters of Senators Warren and Sanders who say if Mayor Pete is elected they won’t vote for him, I simply say “grow up”. America is facing one of the greatest challenges in its nearly two hundred and fifty year history in the 2020 election. Some describe it as existential, believing four more years of a Trump Presidency will do irreparable damage to the Republic, damage that will permanently lessen, if not ultimately destroy it as a functioning liberal democracy. To place partisan Democratic bickering above that is the height of irresponsiblity and is excused by neither youth nor inexperience.
For many of the young supporters of Senators Sanders and Warren Mayor Pete, even though the youngest of the candidates by far, is also the most conservative. They accuse him of mimicking Republican talking points on things like Medicare for All and free tuition even though his positions on these issues are well within the liberal mainstream in America. I understand the wish to create a more just, inclusive society that extends the benefits and prosperity of America to all its citizens, but to insist on abrupt changes that are fundamentally at odds with core American values risks losing the 2020 election and enduring four more years of the current administration. To paraphrase Speaker Nancy Pelosi when speaking of the House of Representatives: unless you have 270 Electoral College votes at the end of the 2020 election, all you are having now is a conversation. And if the Democratic nominating process only results in a conversation then everything Democrats despise about the current administration will continue for four more years. And that could be catastrophic.
The second issue behind criticisms of Mayor Pete is more complex and results from his being an openly gay man who is married to another man. Perversely, it’s a kind of contemporary liberal take on the old descriptiion of homosexuality as “the love that dares not speak its name”. None of the other candidates wants to be tarred as being anti gay and I’m pretty sure none of them is. Aside from compromising their progressive credentials, that would alienate an important Democratic constituency, LGBTQ voters and financial backers.
But you don’t have to be anti gay to be concerned that an openly gay candidate might not be electable. And I’m sure many Democrats harbour that concern but can’t find a way to express it. In the Sanders and Warren camps it’s being mobilized to attack Mayor Pete by masking it with another concern: that he has little support in the black community which is then spun into a narrative about his being a privileged white male with a questionable record on race relations as a mayor. To be clear, concerns he enjoys very little support from communities of colour, particularly older black women which are a core Democratic constituency, are legitimate, but what is mostly absent is a candid discussion of why that is.
I suspect the main reason Mayor Pete has little support in communities of colour is because he is an openly gay man who is married to another man. Recently, some have challenged the assertion that homophobia is greater in the black community than in other communities. This, despite a long history of especially open intolerance of gay men and lesbians from that community. I don’t know why that is although, when it comes to older black women, I suspect the influence of black churches is a significant factor. Everyone is uncomfortable labelling blacks as prejudiced against another group, but without a clear understanding of the reasons behind their lack of support for a candidate progress won’t be made or worse, the wrong path forward will be chosen.
The charge Mayor Pete enjoys “white male privilege” is increasingly making the rounds by those who see his candidacy as a threat to their own ambitions. And it is echoed by their supporters. Speaking now as a seventy year old gay man, I find that claim both ridiculous and deeply offensive. And it tells me that the people making it are either being dishonest or are staggeringly ignorant of what it means to be a gay man in what, despite some progress, is still a deeply homophobic society.
I know that with the adoption of gay marriage as the law of the land, many want to believe acceptance of gay people all across America is complete, but that is just hogwash. Go online and sample the hatred constantly spewing towards gays and lesbians from all corners of the country and then give your head a shake.
So, instead of a frank discussion about this important topic, we hear concerns about Mayor Pete’s age or his white male privilege. While his age may be a legitimate concern, both criticisms are now code words for who and what he is.
The paramount consideration for Democrats choosing their 2020 Presidential nominee must be his or her ability to defeat Donald Trump, and all the digressions over who is or is not more progressive; who cares more about “ordinary” Americans or the increasingly mythical middle class; who will provide medical coverage in one way or another; what approach to take in expanding access to college education etc. all become distractions when viewed through that lense.
Mayor Pete is a very impressive guy and each time I hear him my admiration grows. But I do not believe he is the strongest candidate to take on Donald Trump for a number of reasons, including his being gay, his youth and his relative inexperience. It would be nice if others would be this candid. Actually, I think he is more electible than Senator Sanders and maybe even Senator Warren though.
I expect Mayor Pete will have a long and significant career in American politics and this run for the Presidency will provide a good grounding, one that might lay the foundation for a successful run in the future. In the meantime, Democrats must focus and refocus on who will be their strongest candidate in the 2020 contest. I don’t yet know who that is.
just sayin
G
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